tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2976295103200839458.post1866401068568026035..comments2023-02-16T07:22:48.444-08:00Comments on why not me: You never know who has used donor eggs…stacybhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15287587962566164235noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2976295103200839458.post-12657940032361244512007-12-26T09:24:00.000-08:002007-12-26T09:24:00.000-08:00I am SO looking forward to expanding my circle of ...I am SO looking forward to expanding my circle of friends and family who know. But I feel to do so now would jinx us. Here's to hoping that we'll have something to say soon. <BR/><BR/>Stacyb, you had asked about my other online project here it is - <A HREF="http://www.fertilitynotes.com" REL="nofollow">www.fertilitynotes.com</A><BR/><BR/>(I think you know who this is :) )Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2976295103200839458.post-238926297813339412007-12-21T10:47:00.000-08:002007-12-21T10:47:00.000-08:00I appreciate the thoughtful posts. Thanks Summer a...I appreciate the thoughtful posts. Thanks Summer and Rachel<BR/>...and to clarify: when i say tell people i am still thinking about friends and family and people who are in our lives in a constant way (like a doctor), but I have not yet felt compelled to tell a stranger or someone I barely know the whole story. I'm not sure if this will change or not. And I'm not sure if it means I'm hiding something by not saying everything to everyone (or anyone) whenever possible. We'll see.stacybhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15287587962566164235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2976295103200839458.post-52907132633126856372007-12-21T06:01:00.000-08:002007-12-21T06:01:00.000-08:00I find myself totally okay to talk about it to peo...I find myself totally okay to talk about it to people that I feel safe with... so that's a smaller circle, but I can relate to your feeling of freedom in talking about it naturally. I know there are women (and men) that keep it in total secrecy and I worry about the repercussions of that for them. How sad to need to lie about something that should hold no shame — creating a family.<BR/><BR/>I will look forward to your post on your friend who was adopted. That sounds like some good reading!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2976295103200839458.post-50524193346264337712007-12-20T16:25:00.000-08:002007-12-20T16:25:00.000-08:00That freeing feeling is exactly how I feel when I ...That freeing feeling is exactly how I feel when I talk to people about our plans for DE.<BR/><BR/>How great to have found a pediatrician who has experienced it himself!Summerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10462071403127406819noreply@blogger.com